My Husband's Cancer

I call him a "Miracle Man" because his journey with cancer, truly has been a miracle! This website is developed for ALL those who have been affected by cancer in any way. We all share a common bond and together we need each other's support. I trust you will find encouragement and inspiration on this website not only through my postings, but also through the support of our cancer community. Any comments or suggestions I make are solely based on my opinions and experiences only!

Thursday, July 23, 2009

This Fruit is Especially Good For You

Yes, we've all heard about the benefits of eating fruit and the fresher the fruit, the better it is for you.

There's one fruit in particular that does not get enough notoriety. It belongs to the apple family and this particular fruit offers alot of benefits for those who eat it. Have you guessed it yet?

I wanted to share with you something very interesting about PEARS!!!

Yes, the very nutritious fruit of which I speak is PEARS !!! When my husband was first diagnosed back in 2006 and was unable to eat due to his being very ill, his doctor told him even if he could not eat the delicious hospital food or any other type of food that his family most readily would bring to him, first and foremost he should force himself to eat "pears". Why pears????

His doctor told us that a pear consists of very rich nutrients, it is a quick source of energy and helps the body retain much needed calcium.

It is very rich in vitamin C and helps protect the body's cells from oxygen related damage caused by free radicals. It helps reduce blood pressure and the possibility of stoke.

Eating pears help protect women against postmenopausal breast cancer and it's high pectin level helps reduce the bodies cholesteral levels.

Note for cancer patients

Pears help strengthen your immune system because of their antioxidant properties.

So.......upon the doctor's advice I've been buying pears for my husband ever since. While eating raw ones are more beneficial, they are not readily available in our area in their freshest state until late July and August. There for awhile it was pears for dinner, supper and as a snack. Needless to say, at times my husband has absolutely NO desire for pears....LOL...., but when he's not feeling well, he knows that it's one of the best foods he can eat, and he does!

So, I'd suggest you'd get some for your cupboard to eat whenever your appetite is not good or when you need a boost of energy. Keep them refrigerated as cold pears seem to go down much easier.

OK....I'm off to the grocery....it's Pear Season in our area and there's nothing better for the entire family then fresh pears!!!!

"BON APPETIT"

5 comments:

Sandy said...: Very interesting and useful information. My husband loves pears so I will be buying more for him. Thanks for the info.; July 23, 2009 9:57 PM
Anonymous said...: wow i didn't know that....thanks I'll sure include PEARS on my next grocery list; July 24, 2009 1:36 PM
kje said...: thanks for the info Deb - didn't know that about pears! will definitely add more of them to my diet, along with my berries berries berries!; July 26, 2009 7:02 PM
kenny said...: pears are good, and BERRY fruits are good as well,my father's doctor told me that all the fruits with a word BERRY in their names are good for patients of kidney cancer, such as strawberry, waxberry, blueberry, etc. not sure if it's good for patients of other kinds of cancer.; July 27, 2009 2:17 AM
Sue G said...: Thanks for the suggestion. I had no idea. While pears are not my first choice, I do like them. So, armed with this new information, they have moved to first place on my grocery list.

I still have not managed to catch anyone on the chat line, but I keep looking. One of these days....

Thanks for all you do. Hope your husband is doing well. You too!; July 27, 2009 4:54 AM

"Keep the Faith"

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THREE MONTHS TO LIVE - Not Really!!!!

It is now November 2011, and my husband continues to be our miracle, after first being diagnosed with terminal cancer in 2006 and then sent home for the second time in February 2008 to wait it out and die.....In August of last year, he was once again taken off all cancer meds, and our family listened as his doctor told him again, that there was nothing else out there to help his cancer. We have learned over this time, to Never Give Up, despite the odds being stacked against you. Cancer can be very unpredictable and the main thing to remember is to keep positive and NEVER QUIT!

It seems you always hear about the negatives with cancer, and very seldom about the "POSITIVES"!!!

Voice for Caregivers

I am a voice, though only small for all who hold the reins
As they watch their loved ones battle with the stresses and the strains
Of a plague that lends no favors to gender or to race
That silently invades the sacred body without grace.
"Cancer" is that dreaded curse that changes lives forever
For not only the affected, but also their caregiver.

I am a voice, who through my words will bless you with some hope
For caregivers putting lives on hold and thinking they can't cope
Please take a moment now as I relay what I've been through
And at the end you'll soon find out that it's not only you
Who feels your life is overwhelmed, altered and distressed
As emotions overtake you through a phase of utmost tests.

I am a voice, to tell you, I know exactly how you feel
The constant aching in your heart is oh, so very real.
Sure, you've heard of others out there, maybe friends who've walked this path
But now it's you and this time you directly feel it's wrath.
Every person has suggestions, and you're burdened from the bulk
Heck, at times you even hate them, but you know it's not their fault!

I am a voice, who's traveled through the stages cancer brings
Although I'm not the patient, the diagnosis gave me things
Like emotions that I'd never think were possible for me
To have in my entire life, but continue on and see
That cancer changes everyone, right from the very start
It affects your disposition, your temperament and heart.

I am a voice, who knows that "disbelief" is the first wave
Of emotions that sweep over you when diagnosis has been made.
How could this be? What did we do? There must be some mistake
For surely it cannot be us, who now are tempting fate.
Then follows "fear" for us as well, as we feel we've lost control
The panic, sleepless nights ahead, no one will ever know.

I am a voice, I know first hand when "anger" takes it's toll
It's a devastating feeling of 'why me,' emotions roll
I'm enraged, bitter, exhausted, at the situation that I'm in
I can strike out at a stranger as my temper's wearing thin.
I trust that those around me will forgive me for my acts
I pray that they will never carry what I'm faced with on their backs!

I am a voice, though sometimes haunted by the things I've felt inside
When that telephone starts ringing, I just want to run and hide.
Or maybe someone's come to visit, ooohhhhhh, why don't they stay away
Can't they understand I'm busy, I don't have time for tea or play.
Their suggestions drive me crazy, constant questions and advice
You'll just have to take the lead dear, tell them "back off," but be nice.

I am a voice, who knows our friends and families always there
They really only mean well, they intrude because they care.
But they need to take a step back if they venture on our sod
For only we can understand, they need to walk where we have trod.
We are the ones who anxiously await each doctor's visit, scans and tests
While our loved ones look for courage, we still must smile and do our best.

I am a voice, "frustration" haunts me more and more each day
I slash out at my loved ones and I know that's not the way.
I took my freedom once for granted, now life's different for I feel
Constant waves of guilt, resentment, my life's not mine, it's all too real.
You need time for YOU, so make it, ask someone to take your place
Don't feel like you've abandoned those you love, that's not the case!

I am a voice, as mother, father, sister, brother, kin or friend
As caregiver I am challenged to do my best right to the end.
Even though I've never learned this, the way to care under such stress
And I'm sure to have misgivings, but I know I'll do my best.
For in life we all are challenged, faced with unknowns as we grow
My position as caregiver, is a treasure this I know.

For I've been given talents that I never would have guessed
That will serve to do God's bidding and I know I'm truly blessed.
For He's given me the honor to help my loved ones in their need
And to bring them hope and courage and for me to plant a seed
That will grow a field of memories, I could have run, I had the choice
We're all revered to be CAREGIVERs, now pass the torch and be a voice!
©Debbie Andrews